It is not rare to see a younger guy and an older woman date and have a very intense sexual and romantic relationship, which defies the traditional “older man, younger woman” set-up that we are used to seeing. First, the fact that such a dating situation is still somewhat taboo makes is all the more enticing and exciting.Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women.Two years ago, I discovered that my husband had a mistress, and they were working together in the same company.When I asked him to leave, he became physically violent with me in front of my son, and the police had to remove him from my house. You can read about me here, peruse the archives here and read popular posts here.They were just helping her move, and I was being jealous. Fast forward to last month when we all went out to eat.I found myself trying to deny my real feelings and emotions about my husband’s addiction in order to be attractive to him.
I didn’t want to be labeled “demanding” so I became “Darren’s wife” with one sole purpose…not to have an identity of my own. They just passively follow through with no hesitation or questioning. If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at [email protected](be sure to read these guidelines first). From what I’ve heard, they didn’t really go on a date, kiss, or anything else. Recently, David asked Alex to help him move Steph into her new home. I told him I was upset, and I later realized this wasn’t right. At first I thought this must be because of my overreaction the first time he helped her, but in the back of my mind, when someone lies about something completely innocent like moving a couch, I think there must be something else going on. You can also follow along on Facebook and Instagram. “Alex”‘s best friend “David” has a family member named “Steph.” Alex used to have a thing for Steph, although it never went anywhere.That higher sex drive translates, among other things, into being more direct with men.The more mature women may be interested in dating a younger guy out of sheer curiosity of what it feels like dating someone younger, and also because usually younger guys are more “agile,” active, energetic.A few months ago, I gave him a chance to get back together, but I realized I cannot trust him and he needs help, which he refused to get.