Here’s a list of my most useful posts organized to make things easy and helpful for you.
But before you dive in, ask yourself: Are You a Real Man or Just a “Nice Guy”?
If so, I’m thinking you can go all out if you want. #6 If she doesn’t reply, don’t text her right away. If you two are just starting to text each other and you also have each other on Facebook and/or Instagram, this doesn’t mean now you have the green light to like every post and photo for the past two years. If you start looking too eager, she may get scared and pull back.
If she’s not replying in the timely fashion that you want, texting her again and again, won’t get her to reply any faster. So, if she doesn’t reply either wait for her to reply, or write her the next day. [Read: What to text a girl – Dos, don’ts and all the secrets to know] #7 Don’t tell her you like her. [Read: 18 really obvious signs that a girl likes you over text] #15 Ask her out. You may not succeed the first time round, but with enough practice, you’ll own it.
Though, texting isn’t bad for you fellas, it does give you some time to think of something interesting to say. For example, if you know her from way back, you can easily start the conversation by saying, “knock, knock…” or “I saw your pictures from South America, it looks amazing! Depending on how you met her, say something about the club you two were at, something she posted on Facebook. If you’re not naturally a funny guy, don’t force it, it’s going to flop. If she’s only replying with one or two words, well, then maybe she’s not as interested as you thought. This doesn’t mean you ask her to ask you something. If she’s the only one answering questions, well, then it’s sounding very one-sided, so if I were you, I would back off and see if she initiates anything. I know you’re horny, but you’re going to have to play it cool.The times where you would call a girl and talk to her over the phone are long gone.Well, they’re still around but guys who call girls are about as rare as unicorn sperm. Don’t ask me why, I think it’s impersonal and takes too long, but, who am I? Is she a friend you lost contact with, did you just meet her at a bar/club or did you get her number from a friend? Or at least be very aware of what you share online - especially in the social media arena. no more waiting "three days" after a date to contact your new love interest. If you had an amazing first date, text them the next day and let them know...In his book,, Oyer reveals how you can use economic principles to your advantage in dating.